In Brief

“Interpersonal or social advantage attained by the client as a consequence of illness.” ~ S. Freud

Quotes

The subconscious mind clings to hidden advantages in abuse, bad relationships and lack of success. ~ Anonymous

 

“We do things we don’t want to do because of secondary gain.” ~ Anonymous

External Motivators

Missing work, Disability benefits, Obtaining drugs, Lawsuits, Gaining sympathy, Avoiding jail.

Unconscious Motivators (Inner Child)

Lacks knowledge, Understanding, Perspective, Emotional maturity

Client / Therapist

Client:

“I’ve always hated myself.”

Therapist:

“There has to be a reason… and a payoff.”

“How would your life be if you were doing well?”