Hatred
Hatred – Others
In Brief
Never underestimate the strength of a social bond when two people hate the same person.
Quotes
“Hate is easy. Love is hard. Love makes us vulnerable.” ~ H. Scot
“The opposite of love is not hate. It’s indifference.” ~ Anonymous
“Hate the sin. Love the sinner.” ~ Mahatma Ghandhi
“Hatred is a coward’s revenge for being intimidated.” ~ H. Ballou
“Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.” ~ Yoda
Resources
Websites
Helpguide.org
Betterhelp.com
Verywellmind.com
Apa.org
Youngminds.org
Movies
To Kill a Mockingbird
Romeo and Juliet
Star Wars
Death Rides a Horse
A Time To Kill
Books
The Hate U Give
~ A. Thomas
Hatred: The Psychological Descent into Violence
~ W. Gaylin
Trait Pros
Hatred is a powerful motivator. Ask any athlete. Some things should be hated.
Trait Cons
Hatred towards people is dangerous, ugly and pointless. Racism.
Tip(s)
The Battle of Two Wolves, (Cherokee Nation): “The one you feed will win.”
Hatred – Self
In Brief
“Due to very human upbringing, – hence very fallible – we all have felt desperately inadequate.” ~ Anonymous
Quotes
“When we don’t know who to hate, we hate ourselves.” ~ C. Palahnniuk
“Self-hatred and self-love are equally self-centered.” ~ M. Cooley
“When a man hates himself, he takes it out on the woman who loves him.” ~ R. Sin
Resources
Websites
Psychalive.org
Healthline.com
Psychotherapynetworker.org
Goodtherapy.org
Movies
Leaving Las Vegas
Arrested Development
Boy Erased
Eighth Grade
Sunset Blvd
Books
The Plus
~ G. Gutfeld
Unworthy: How to Stop Hating Yourself
~ A. Rufus
Addicted to Unhappiness
~ M. Pieper
Therapy Pros
It’s better than apathy. “Even Oprah has to hate herself occasionally.” ~ M. Mason
Therapy Cons
The “idealized-self” promotes glorious, unachievable goals in a real world.