Door Mats / People Pleasers
In Brief
Door mats seldom feel worthy of being loved, appreciated or valued for who they are.
Quotes
“It is physically, intellectually, spiritually, psychologically and emotionally disastrous to be a doormat. ~ N. Adamo
“I was the doormat that brought all the dirty boots to the yard.” ~ N. Adamo
“I can’t tell you the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everyone.” ~ E. Sheeran
“If you try to please all, you please none.” ~ Aesop
Resources
Websites
Mindtool.com
Openlearningworld.com
Abct.org
Psychcentral.com
Movies
Spider-Man III
Despicable Me
Pinocchio
The Peanuts Movie
Night of the Living Dead
Books
Happily, Imperfect
~ S. Martin
Stick Up for Yourself
~ G. Kaufman, et al.
Assertiveness for Earth Angels
~ D. Virtue
Trait Pros
Popularity. Inspires thoughtful and considerate behavior.
Trait Cons
Good Girl Syndrome: Fear of rejection, abandonment, conflict, or criticism.
